my username / password, what should I do?
bellow the Log on Box there is a link for forgoten Password, If you
need a more personal service you can go to the webmaster page and
contact the webmaster and you will be helped
change my password?
Tools click on Profile Update, in the comments box you can say to
change your username and or password don't forget to give your new
username and or password
|Under Tools click on
Profile Update, You can make many changes here
receive email notifications?
the contact us form you can send the username and the E mail address
you registered with, We will check out the problem and get back to you
can contact me with E mail at: email@example.com or
firstname.lastname@example.org or go to the webmaster page at the bottom of your
page right hand side click on webmaster, You can contact me there also
with the contact us form!
does membership cost?
is no charge, We are probably the only totally free adult site in the
Philippines. Others say they are Free to join But after you join you
find that many parts of the site are not free, you will be asked to
upgrade your membership.
private information is not posted. Your profile is open to registered
members. No E Mail address is posted, no phone numbers are posted Your
profile is not public, it is only open to registered members. We do not
give your information to anyone and we do not sell your information
my username and password working?
|Questions About The
suspend my profile or make myself invisible to other users?
|Go to the bottom of
your profile and click on (Contact Us) you must supply your Username
and password and the Email address you registered with. This will not
remove your profile but it will block other members from going to your
profile, Your profile will be invisible!!
my profile deleted?
|We don't delete
profiles without reason, However you can contact us at:
email@example.com We will check your profile ans see about
private information/profile be viewable by the public?
|Your profile will only
be visible by members and they must be logged on to see your profile.
Your E mail and phone number is not posted on your profile
How do I
close my account?
|At the bottom of your
profile click on Contact Us and request your account be closed, you
must supply your Username, Password amd E mail address you registered
to adjust my personal information?
|Under tools on your
profile click on Profile Update. You can add or change your profile
How do I
edit my profile/email address/personal information/password ?
|Under tools on your
profile click on Profile Update. You can add or change your profile
take my profile offline and unsubscribe after I sign up?
|Yes just contact us and
ask that your profile be deleted!! You must supply your username and
password and Email address you registered with!!
How do I
|On your profile under
tools click on Add Photos this will take you to the photo upload form!!
How do I
make my photos 'private'?
|When you upload photos
there is a place where you say if the photos are for profile or
How do I
create an album on my profile?
|There is an album at
the bottom of your profile it is expandable to 100 photos as you upload
photos. You also have an unlimited private photo album that will expand
as you upload photos. If you require more please contact us and explain
what you need!!
can't upload a photo?
|Use the contact us
form, Explain the problem and we will check it out and get back to you!!
see my photo?
members can see your photos, and only you can see your orivate photos.
How ever you can let others see your private photos by leting them have
your password to your private photos. We suggest you change your
private photo password in about a week, this will keep your photos
safe. Some people will give out your password!!
I set a photo as my main photo ?
|You can go to tools and
profile Update, at the bottom of the form you can change your main
photos can I upload?
|You can upload up to 5
photos at a time. You can upload up to 100 photos to your profile, and
unlimited private photos
will it take for my photo to show?
|We approve every photos
by hand so it could take about an hour, But sooner in most cases
24. How can I delete a photo ?
|You can use a contact
us form or contact the webmaster at the bottom of your page right side
click on webmaster, send a message and ask that your profile be
deleted. be sure yo give the email address you registered and username
25. Why are photos so important?
|Photos are the most
important part of your profile. When someone checks out your profile,
you want them to spend some time. The only thing that will keep them on
your profile is photos. More than anything you might say on your
profile. You should post every photo you can, on your profile and
|Yes Nudity is
permitted!! if the photos are of you. You can never post photos that
you don't have a legal right to post. But there is on limit on photos
the album photo restrictions?
your profile you have a profile photo and you can also post up to 100
photos on your profile, There is no limit to your private photos. No
children can be posted on this site. Not even your kids. About the only
restrictions is no kiddy porn, No photos of other people you don't have
a right to!!
|Life Style Questions
women in the Lifestyle bisexual?
all women in the Lifestyle are bisexual or bi-curious, but the majority
of them are. In fact, a woman’s bisexuality, or bi-curiosity is
one of the most common reasons that couples get involved in the
Lifestyle to begin with. A women in the lifestyle might see this as an
opportunity to see if she actually enjoys playing with women and start
off as bicurious, realise she does and start to identify with bisexual.
But all ladies into swinging are not all BI*.
are naturally bi-curious when it comes to sex, a new report has
discovered. And what's more, it becomes more pronounced the older they
carried out by Boise State University found that out of a group of 484
heterosexual women, 60 per cent were sexually attracted to other women;
45 per cent had kissed a woman and 50 per cent had fantasies about the
dating sites safe?
online dating sites are safe to use as they protect your details so
they remain confidential. You can only contact other members through
their messaging systems so your personal contact details will never be
revealed unless you give them out yourself. You have control over who
you contact and talk to on the sites. Where online dating can become
less safe is when you actually meet someone in real life as there is
always a risk. When it comes to meeting someone you should use common
sense, always meet in a public place and make sure that a friend or
relative knows where you're going to be. All sites have full guides to
safely meeting your match off-line and they are worth reading and
remembering. Your profile is only open to members of www.miss-cutie.com
And members must log on to see member profiles!!
there bi-sexual men in the Lifestyle?
few. Most men in the Lifestyle are straight. Just as in our
mainstream culture, male bisexuality is still gaining acceptance in the
Lifestyle. Couples with actively bi-sexual males are usually
seeking the same and do not seek out couples with straight men. Not
saying there is none. There as in any group must be some and we to
welcome them, We just ask thay they respect other members!!
swingers all older retired people?
|The truth is, that there
are a HUGE number of younger people in the Lifestyle!
once a time in this country when someone could be fired from a job
because they were homosexual… So gays and lesbians were forced to keep
their sexuality a secret. There was also a time in this country
when it was against the law to have an inter-racial relationship… So
interracial couples had to keep their relationships secret. Both
homosexuality and interracial couples have since gained acceptance
among most of the World and no longer need to fear repercussions….
people usually have much greater reasons to keep their involvement in
the Lifestyle a guarded secret. Younger swingers are more likely
to work for an employer who might fire them or make life difficult if
anyone at work ever found out. They may have parents and family
that would be disapproving of their personal lives. They are also
more likely to have younger children whose lives would become very
difficult and embarrassing if their schoolmates or other parents found
that 99% of the swingers that you see appearing in documentaries and
talk shows are older, is because they no longer face the same risks as
younger swingers. The older swingers who speak publicly about
their lifestyle usually own there own businesses or are retired by now,
so they don’t fear losing their jobs. Their parents may no longer
be alive, so they don’t have to fear being disowned by family.
Their children are all grown up and out of the house. They no
longer have the same risks, so they don’t care who finds out.
hundreds of thousands of attractive younger people in the Lifestyle,
and since the invention of the internet, the number of new people in
the Lifestyle has exploded in the past ten years! You just
need to know where to look.
single person be in the Lifestyle?
most of the people in the Lifestyle are couples, there are a fair
number of swinging singles (“Swingles”), But there is an
ENOURMOUS difference between single females & single males in the
in the Lifestyle… Hmm… Where do we begin? It is very
difficult to be a single male in the Lifestyle. While there are a
handful of very well respected and popular single males in the
Lifestyle, they face an uphill battle against a bad reputation,
overpopulation, and general lack of interest. Their bad
reputation exists because many single males who decide to join the
Lifestyle do so because they think it will be an easy way to have lots
of ‘no-strings attached’ sex. They either don’t understand or
don’t care about the social complexity and rules of the
Lifestyle. Most Lifestyle events and clubs don’t allow single
males, because those that do allow them end up packed with horny men
who think they are at a meat market… This usually ends up driving away
the couples and females. Often these "meat market males"
will join a Lifestyle website and immediately start sending unsolicited
emails to couples and single females with lewd propositions and/or
photos of their ‘goods’. To the best of our knowledge that
approach has NEVER worked for a single male. These types of males
usually get frustrated when they get no ‘action’ and eventually give up
on the Lifestyle… But just like a cockroach, they are usually replaced
by two more. It’s no wonder that respectable websites such as
www.miss-cutie.com have added features that allow couples and females
to block all incoming messages from single males. This may sound harsh,
but we are simply stating the facts about how these "bad apples" can
spoil many people's appetite for single males in the Lifestyle... That
being said, it really makes you appreciate the few good apples. We will
delete a person for Bad acts.
single males who are successful in the Lifestyle are the ones who are
patient, respectful, polite, and never ever pushy or assuming.
They are usually very active members of online Lifestyle communities,
posting in forums and talking in the chat rooms so that other members
can get to know their personality. They understand that most people are
not interested in single males, and are accepting of that. If a single
male has gained the respect of the Lifestyle community he will
eventually be contacted by the couples or single females who are
interested in him. But it takes a lot of patience, grace &
respect... All of which cannot be faked.
know several single males in the Lifestyle who we are proud to call
swinging make my spouse want to leave me?
won’t lie to you. There are some relationships which have broken
up while trying to enter the Lifestyle. But that is usually
because one half of the couple was pushed into it by their
spouse. That is not the Lifestyle’s fault. That’s the fault of an
unstable relationship with bad communication and lack of respect for
your partner. Swinging is a decision that BOTH partners have to agree
on totally and completely. You wouldn’t force your spouse to move
to a new city without discussing it with them first, right? Of
course not, they’d probably divorce you, and with good reason! You
obviously didn’t respect them and were only thinking about yourself.
scapegoat the Lifestyle as the cause of their breakup are people who
don’t want to face their own more serious problems with their
dating sites work?
simple answer is yes. Millions of people use dating sites nowadays as a
way to meet new people and maybe find their perfect match. You only
have to look at the success stories nearly all sites have on their
websites to see that it can and does work. However don't think that by
sticking up a profile on one you're guaranteed to meet someone, it
still takes a little work to make a good profile and contact people.
wanting sex with other people mean your unhappy in your relationships?
show that 78.5% of married couples in the lifestyle are very happy
while 64% of the general public are the same. As you can see,
couples in the Lifestyle are actually more likely to be very happy in
their relationships than the average couple. It’s easy to
understand why, since couples that swing typically have a much higher
level of trust, honesty and communication with their partner than the
average non-swinger couple. You don’t need Dr. Phil to tell you
that those are three things that are key in a healthy and happy
relationship. Plus, having a spouse who wants to help you fulfill
your sexual fantasies… How can you not be happy about that!?
you possibly compare belonging to the Lifestyle to belonging to a
Let’s say that you belong to the local (Insert Your Religion Here)
Church in your home town. One day a sudden tornado carries you
1000 miles away to a strange town where you don’t know anybody.
If you go to the (Insert Your Religion Here) Church in that town, you
will immediately be surrounded by people who think just like you, and
believe in the same things you do. You suddenly belong to a
community in that town. You know you can count on these people to
help you if you needed it, and you would do the same for them.
Lifestyle is exactly the same way. Since we joined the lifestyle
we’ve corresponded and made friends with people in the Lifestyle from
several states. Now no matter where we travel, we always have
friends to show us around town, take us to the local events, or even
give us a place to stay. They don’t do these nice things because
they expect sex in return. They do them because we are one of them… And
if there’s chemistry, sex is just a bonus.
Lifestyle is considered a religion by most members. A just like most
religions, the Lifestyle is a community of like-minded people, who live
a certain way of life and who look out for one another…
unlike most religions, sex is appreciated and respected.
people are in the Swingers Lifestyle?
|More than you'd think!
News report estimated that there are over 4 million swingers in
America. Since most swingers are usually pretty secretive about their
involvement in the Lifestyle, this estimation is probably on the lower
side. We've actually heard estimates go as high as 8 million!
that for a second... 4 million swingers in America... That is about 1
out of 75 people! Do YOU know 75 people? That would make it about One
Million in the Philippines!!
Cheating to Swing?
you do with someone else behind your partner’s back and against their
wishes is betrayal of trust. Swingers eliminate lying, distrust
and secrecy from their relationship. Everything that a person
does in the Lifestyle is done openly, honestly and with the full
consent and enthusiasm of their partner. Otherwise, even the most
experienced swinger would consider it cheating. Swingers detest
cheaters and do not condone cheating of any kind.
free to sign up?
clube do charge, But we at www.miss-cutie.com have never charged a
member for anything. Membership is FREE. We are not here to take your
money. We will never charge you!!
that all that swingers do when they’re together?… Have sex?
ridiculous! While an open-minded and playful attitude towards sex
is something that all people in the Lifestyle have in common, it
doesn’t mean that sex is some sort of mandatory requirement when
swingers meet each other. Swingers aren’t rabbits! Just like in the
regular dating world, there has to be chemistry & mutual attraction
between people before anyone 'gets jiggy'.
very closest friends are people in the Lifestyle who we have no sexual
relationship with. But they’re wonderful and open-minded people
who we can truly be ourselves around. In that way belonging to
the Lifestyle is a lot like belonging to a religion.
about diseases and STDs?
and STDs are something that everyone should be concerned about, not
just swingers. But the reality of the situation is that people in
the Lifestyle tend to be far more educated and much more careful about
STDs than the average person. They are also far more likely to
use sexual protection and get regularly tested than the average person.
at the amount of unplanned pregnancies and the transmission of STD’s in
the vanilla world, you can assume that they occur because people don’t
use protection… Why!? Why in this day and age would anyone not
use protection when having sex? Perhaps they were in the heat of
the moment and didn’t have time to put on protection… Perhaps they
didn’t have any protection, but they were afraid that if they didn’t
have sex now, they would never get the chance again… Perhaps they were
just plain stupid and didn’t know any better!
I have questions that are not in this list?
|You can check out our
Forum , Where you can find answers to questions. And ask questions.
Click on this Reply to see the Forum
a secret Lover?
people who are having intimate relations but keeping it out of the eye
of the public. Your secret lover is the person you are having relations
with but not letting your friends or your regular mate find out about.
A cheating Husband or Wife.
an Open Relationship?
open relationship is an interpersonal relationship in which the parties
want to be together but agree to a form of a non-monogamous
relationship. This means that they agree that a romantic or intimate
relationship with people hooking up with their partner is accepted,
permitted, or tolerated.
is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving
bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other
interpersonal dynamics. Given the wide range of practices, some of
which may be engaged in by people who do not consider themselves as
practicing BDSM, inclusion in the BDSM community or subculture is
usually dependent on self-identification and shared experience.
who has an intense intrest in bisexualality, and/or suspects they may
be bisexual, however does not classify themself as bisexual as of yet.
other terms ("social nudity", "public nudity", "skinny dipping",
"sunning", and "clothes-free") have been proposed as alternative terms
for naturism, but none has found the same widespread public acceptance
as the older terms "naturism" and (in much of the United States)
interested in social nudity can attend clothes-free beaches and other
types of ad-hoc nudist events. At these venues, participants generally
need not belong to a naturist club.
is the nonpossessive, honest, responsible and ethical philosophy and
practice of loving multiple people simultanously. Polyamory emphasizes
consciously choosing how many partners one wishes to be involved with
rather than accepting social norms which dictate loving only one person
at a time.
Date can be many thing, But most of the time it means No Strings, One
Night Stand. It could be someone you meet at the mall or on the
internet and decide to get a room and have good time sex, just a one
time thing or it could be a regular meeting once a week or month. But
the purpuss is just good sex.
chat is a one-on-one visual communication between two Internet users.
You can talk in a group or in a private chat. See people before you
meet in person
kind of Adult lifestyle is there on this site?
have many Adult lifestyles, The lifestyles are in the forn of Clubs.
Swingers, Sex Dating, Polyamory, Open Relationships, Nudism, Fetish,
Discreet lovers, BI Curious, BDSM. If you want us to add a Club, Let us
know so we can add it.
sort of email notifications will I receive after I sign up?
will be notified when a member sends you a message, We also send you
Email when something new happens on the site. Like a new feature. You
will receive a monthly News page
should I try online dating sites?
dating sites provide a great way to meet people you may never meet in
the normal course of your life. It is extremely easy to get started and
you can be much more thorough in your search for a partner as you can
search through thousands of profiles to find the one you want. While
you still need to put effort in to get to know people it doesn't have
the fear factor of going up to someone in a bar or club. You can get to
know them quite well online before meeting and your first date will
have a head start as you'll already know plenty about each other.
private information/profile be viewable by the public?
only members can see your profile and they must log on to go to profile
pages. Your Private information like phone number, E Mail address. Will
not be posted unless you post your E Mail as
your Username. Your Username is posted on your profile. So make your
Username something other than your E mail Address
give out my private information to marketing companies?
we only advertise on Face Book and Twitter, And only with your
permission. When you register we ask if we can post you to Face Book or
Twitter or Both. If you don't give permission we never post you. Other
than that we don't use you in marketing, and only members will be able
to see you.
get incredibly jealous seeing my partner?
very well might at first. Jealousy is anger and insecurity caused
by fear of losing something... In this case, your partner. That’s why
it’s important to take things slow, communicate and listen to your
partner. You and your partner need to remember that no matter what
happens, you love each other and you are going home together.
Besides, when you swing with other couples, it’s good to remember that
they are there for the same reason as you are, fun. Lifestyle
couples are committed to each other and have no interest in stealing
your mate or breaking up your relationship.
some of the special features unique to www. miss-cutie.comForMe.com?
|We have many features
here, This is a list of what we have: Personal ads, Photo Contest,
Fantasies, Full Profile, Video Chat, Site Mail, Comments, Site forum,
Private photo page, Groups, Monthly News, Casting Couch, and much more
58. Solicitation and illegal activities
|If You have become the
target of abusive activity or are seeing it take place in a profile on
the Website or in a discussion Forum, please report the user to Miss
Cutie by sending an email to firstname.lastname@example.org and by alerting
the Forum moderators to the abusive activity.
Contacting people, After you were asked to stop?
|If you are asked not to
contact someone, please just move on. When someone says not to contact
them, that is what they mean. So please just move on. There are too
many people here so don't wast your time with someone that is not
interested! You will be deleted is you keep this up!!