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1.Are all women in the Lifestyle bisexual?
2.Are dating sites safe?
3.Are there bi-sexual men in the Lifestyle?
4. Aren’t swingers all older retired people?
5. Can a single person be in the Lifestyle?
6. Could swinging make my spouse want to leave me?
7. Do dating sites work?
8. Doesn’t wanting sex with other people mean swingers must be unhappy in their own relationships?
9. How can you possibly compare belonging to the Lifestyle to belonging to a religion?
10. How many people are in the Swingers Lifestyle?
11. Is it Cheating to Swing?
12. Is it free to sign up?
13. Isn’t that all that swingers do when they’re together?… Have sex?
14. What about diseases and STDs?
15. What if I have questions that are not in this list?
16. What is a secret Lover?
17. What is an Open Relationship?
18. What is BDSM?
19. What is BI Curious?
20. What is Nudism?
21. What is Polyamory?
22. What is Sex Dating?
23. What is Video Chat?
24. What kind of Adult lifestyle is there on this site?
25. What sort of email notifications will I receive after I sign up?
26. Why should I try online dating sites?
27. Will my private information/profile be viewable by the public?
28. Will you give out my private information to marketing companies?
29. Won’t I get incredibly jealous seeing my partner have sex with another person


1. Are all women in the Lifestyle bisexual?

 
Not all women in the Lifestyle are bisexual or bi-curious, but the majority of them are.  In fact, a woman’s bisexuality, or bi-curiosity is one of the most common reasons that couples get involved in the Lifestyle to begin with. A women in the lifestyle might see this as an opportunity to see if she actually enjoys playing with women and start off as bicurious, realise she does and start to identify with bisexual. But all ladies into swinging are not all BI*.
Most women are naturally bi-curious when it comes to sex, a new report has discovered. And what's more, it becomes more pronounced the older they get.
In a study carried out by Boise State University found that out of a group of 484 heterosexual women, 60 per cent were sexually attracted to other women; 45 per cent had kissed a woman and 50 per cent had fantasies about the same sex.


2. Are dating sites safe?


Reputable online dating sites are safe to use as they protect your details so they remain confidential. You can only contact other members through their messaging systems so your personal contact details will never be revealed unless you give them out yourself. You have control over who you contact and talk to on the sites. Where online dating can become less safe is when you actually meet someone in real life as there is always a risk. When it comes to meeting someone you should use common sense, always meet in a public place and make sure that a friend or relative knows where you're going to be. All sites have full guides to safely meeting your match off-line and they are worth reading and remembering. Your profile is only open to members of www.miss-cutie.com And members must log on to see member profiles!!

 

3. Are there bi-sexual men in the Lifestyle?


Very few.  Most men in the Lifestyle are straight. Just as in our mainstream culture, male bisexuality is still gaining acceptance in the Lifestyle.  Couples with actively bi-sexual males are usually seeking the same and do not seek out couples with straight men. Not saying there is none. There as in any group must be some and we to welcome them, We just ask thay they respect other members!!

 

4. Aren’t swingers all older retired people?


The truth is, that there are a HUGE number of younger people in the Lifestyle!
There was once a time in this country when someone could be fired from a job because they were homosexual… So gays and lesbians were forced to keep their sexuality a secret.  There was also a time in this country when it was against the law to have an inter-racial relationship… So interracial couples had to keep their relationships secret.  Both homosexuality and interracial couples have since gained acceptance among most of the World and no longer need to fear repercussions….
Younger people usually have much greater reasons to keep their involvement in the Lifestyle a guarded secret.  Younger swingers are more likely to work for an employer who might fire them or make life difficult if anyone at work ever found out.  They may have parents and family that would be disapproving of their personal lives.  They are also more likely to have younger children whose lives would become very difficult and embarrassing if their schoolmates or other parents found out.
The reason that 99% of the swingers that you see appearing in documentaries and talk shows are older, is because they no longer face the same risks as younger swingers.  The older swingers who speak publicly about their lifestyle usually own there own businesses or are retired by now, so they don’t fear losing their jobs.  Their parents may no longer be alive, so they don’t have to fear being disowned by family.  Their children are all grown up and out of the house.  They no longer have the same risks, so they don’t care who finds out.
There are hundreds of thousands of attractive younger people in the Lifestyle, and since the invention of the internet, the number of new people in the Lifestyle has exploded in the past ten years!   You just need to know where to look.

5. Can a single person be in the Lifestyle?


While most of the people in the Lifestyle are couples, there are a fair number of swinging singles (“Swingles”),   But there is an ENOURMOUS difference between single females & single males in the Lifestyle.
Single males in the Lifestyle…  Hmm… Where do we begin?  It is very difficult to be a single male in the Lifestyle. While there are a handful of very well respected and popular single males in the Lifestyle, they face an uphill battle against a bad reputation, overpopulation, and general lack of interest.  Their bad reputation exists because many single males who decide to join the Lifestyle do so because they think it will be an easy way to have lots of ‘no-strings attached’ sex.  They either don’t understand or don’t care about the social complexity and rules of the Lifestyle.  Most Lifestyle events and clubs don’t allow single males, because those that do allow them end up packed with horny men who think they are at a meat market… This usually ends up driving away the couples and females.   Often these "meat market males" will join a Lifestyle website and immediately start sending unsolicited emails to couples and single females with lewd propositions and/or photos of their ‘goods’.  To the best of our knowledge that approach has NEVER worked for a single male.  These types of males usually get frustrated when they get no ‘action’ and eventually give up on the Lifestyle… But just like a cockroach, they are usually replaced by two more. It’s no wonder that respectable websites such as www.miss-cutie.com have added features that allow couples and females to block all incoming messages from single males. This may sound harsh, but we are simply stating the facts about how these "bad apples" can spoil many people's appetite for single males in the Lifestyle... That being said, it really makes you appreciate the few good apples. We will delete a person for Bad acts.
The rare single males who are successful in the Lifestyle are the ones who are patient, respectful, polite, and never ever pushy or assuming.  They are usually very active members of online Lifestyle communities, posting in forums and talking in the chat rooms so that other members can get to know their personality. They understand that most people are not interested in single males, and are accepting of that. If a single male has gained the respect of the Lifestyle community he will eventually be contacted by the couples or single females who are interested in him.  But it takes a lot of patience, grace & respect... All of which cannot be faked.
We ourselves know several single males in the Lifestyle who we are proud to call friends.

 

6. Could swinging make my spouse want to leave me?


We won’t lie to you.  There are some relationships which have broken up while trying to enter the Lifestyle.  But that is usually because one half of the couple was pushed into it by their spouse.  That is not the Lifestyle’s fault. That’s the fault of an unstable relationship with bad communication and lack of respect for your partner. Swinging is a decision that BOTH partners have to agree on totally and completely.  You wouldn’t force your spouse to move to a new city without discussing it with them first, right?  Of course not, they’d probably divorce you, and with good reason! You obviously didn’t respect them and were only thinking about yourself.
People who scapegoat the Lifestyle as the cause of their breakup are people who don’t want to face their own more serious problems with their relationship skills.

7. Do dating sites work?

The simple answer is yes. Millions of people use dating sites nowadays as a way to meet new people and maybe find their perfect match. You only have to look at the success stories nearly all sites have on their websites to see that it can and does work. However don't think that by sticking up a profile on one you're guaranteed to meet someone, it still takes a little work to make a good profile and contact people.

8. Doesn’t wanting sex with other people mean swingers must be unhappy in their own relationships?


Statistics show that 78.5% of married couples in the lifestyle are very happy while 64% of the general public are the same.  As you can see, couples in the Lifestyle are actually more likely to be very happy in their relationships than the average couple.  It’s easy to understand why, since couples that swing typically have a much higher level of trust, honesty and communication with their partner than the average non-swinger couple.  You don’t need Dr. Phil to tell you that those are three things that are key in a healthy and happy relationship.  Plus, having a spouse who wants to help you fulfill your sexual fantasies… How can you not be happy about that!?

 

9. How can you possibly compare belonging to the Lifestyle to belonging to a religion?


Easily!  Let’s say that you belong to the local (Insert Your Religion Here) Church in your home town.  One day a sudden tornado carries you 1000 miles away to a strange town where you don’t know anybody.  If you go to the (Insert Your Religion Here) Church in that town, you will immediately be surrounded by people who think just like you, and believe in the same things you do.  You suddenly belong to a community in that town.  You know you can count on these people to help you if you needed it, and you would do the same for them.
The Lifestyle is exactly the same way.  Since we joined the lifestyle we’ve corresponded and made friends with people in the Lifestyle from several states.  Now no matter where we travel, we always have friends to show us around town, take us to the local events, or even give us a place to stay.  They don’t do these nice things because they expect sex in return. They do them because we are one of them… And if there’s chemistry, sex is just a bonus.
The Lifestyle is considered a religion by most members. A just like most religions, the Lifestyle is a community of like-minded people, who live a certain way of life and who look out for one another…
However, unlike most religions, sex is appreciated and respected.

10. How many people are in the Swingers Lifestyle?


More than you'd think!
A recent ABC News report estimated that there are over 4 million swingers in America. Since most swingers are usually pretty secretive about their involvement in the Lifestyle, this estimation is probably on the lower side. We've actually heard estimates go as high as 8 million!
Think about that for a second... 4 million swingers in America... That is about 1 out of 75 people! Do YOU know 75 people? That would make it about One Million in the Philippines!!

11. Is it Cheating to Swing?


Anything you do with someone else behind your partner’s back and against their wishes is betrayal of trust.  Swingers eliminate lying, distrust and secrecy from their relationship.  Everything that a person does in the Lifestyle is done openly, honestly and with the full consent and enthusiasm of their partner.  Otherwise, even the most experienced swinger would consider it cheating. Swingers detest cheaters and do not condone cheating of any kind.

12. Is it free to sign up?


Some clube do charge, But we at www.miss-cutie.com have never charged a member for anything. Membership is FREE. We are not here to take your money. We will never charge you!!

13. Isn’t that all that swingers do when they’re together?… Have sex?


That’s ridiculous!  While an open-minded and playful attitude towards sex is something that all people in the Lifestyle have in common, it doesn’t mean that sex is some sort of mandatory requirement when swingers meet each other. Swingers aren’t rabbits! Just like in the regular dating world, there has to be chemistry & mutual attraction between people before anyone 'gets jiggy'.
Some of our very closest friends are people in the Lifestyle who we have no sexual relationship with.  But they’re wonderful and open-minded people who we can truly be ourselves around.  In that way belonging to the Lifestyle is a lot like belonging to a religion.

14. What about diseases and STDs?


Diseases and STDs are something that everyone should be concerned about, not just swingers.  But the reality of the situation is that people in the Lifestyle tend to be far more educated and much more careful about STDs than the average person.  They are also far more likely to use sexual protection and get regularly tested than the average person.
If you look at the amount of unplanned pregnancies and the transmission of STD’s in the vanilla world, you can assume that they occur because people don’t use protection… Why!?  Why in this day and age would anyone not use protection when having sex?  Perhaps they were in the heat of the moment and didn’t have time to put on protection… Perhaps they didn’t have any protection, but they were afraid that if they didn’t have sex now, they would never get the chance again… Perhaps they were just plain stupid and didn’t know any better!


15. What if I have questions that are not in this list?


You can check out our Forum , Where you can find answers to questions. And ask questions. Click on this Reply to see the Forum
 

16. What is a secret Lover?


2 people who are having intimate relations but keeping it out of the eye of the public. Your secret lover is the person you are having relations with but not letting your friends or your regular mate find out about. A cheating Husband or Wife.


17. What is an Open Relationship?


An open relationship is an interpersonal relationship in which the parties want to be together but agree to a form of a non-monogamous relationship. This means that they agree that a romantic or intimate relationship with people hooking up with their partner is accepted, permitted, or tolerated.

18. What is BDSM?


BDSM is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other interpersonal dynamics. Given the wide range of practices, some of which may be engaged in by people who do not consider themselves as practicing BDSM, inclusion in the BDSM community or subculture is usually dependent on self-identification and shared experience.

19. What is BI Curious?


Somone who has an intense intrest in bisexualality, and/or suspects they may be bisexual, however does not classify themself as bisexual as of yet.

20. What is Nudism?


Several other terms ("social nudity", "public nudity", "skinny dipping", "sunning", and "clothes-free") have been proposed as alternative terms for naturism, but none has found the same widespread public acceptance as the older terms "naturism" and (in much of the United States) "nudism".
People interested in social nudity can attend clothes-free beaches and other types of ad-hoc nudist events. At these venues, participants generally need not belong to a naturist club.

21. What is Polyamory?


Polyamory is the nonpossessive, honest, responsible and ethical philosophy and practice of loving multiple people simultanously. Polyamory emphasizes consciously choosing how many partners one wishes to be involved with rather than accepting social norms which dictate loving only one person at a time.

22. What is Sex Dating?


Sex Date can be many thing, But most of the time it means No Strings, One Night Stand. It could be someone you meet at the mall or on the internet and decide to get a room and have good time sex, just a one time thing or it could be a regular meeting once a week or month. But the purpuss is just good sex.

23. What is Video Chat?


Video chat is a one-on-one visual communication between two Internet users. You can talk in a group or in a private chat. See people before you meet in person

24. What kind of Adult lifestyle is there on this site?

We have many Adult lifestyles, The lifestyles are in the forn of Clubs. Swingers, Sex Dating, Polyamory, Open Relationships, Nudism, Fetish, Discreet lovers, BI Curious, BDSM. If you want us to add a Club, Let us know so we can add it.

25. What sort of email notifications will I receive after I sign up?

You will be notified when a member sends you a message, We also send you e mail when sinething new happens on the site. Lik a new feature.

26. Why should I try online dating sites?

Online dating sites provide a great way to meet people you may never meet in the normal course of your life. It is extremely easy to get started and you can be much more thorough in your search for a partner as you can search through thousands of profiles to find the one you want. While you still need to put effort in to get to know people it doesn't have the fear factor of going up to someone in a bar or club. You can get to know them quite well online before meeting and your first date will have a head start as you'll already know plenty about each other.

27. Will my private information/profile be viewable by the public?


No only members can see your profile and they must log on to go to profile pages.

28. Will you give out my private information to marketing companies?


No we only advertist on  Face Book and Twitter, And only with your permission. When you register we ask if we can post you to Face Book or Twitter or Both. If you don't give permission we never post you. Other than that we don't use you in marketing, and only members will be able to see you.

 29. Won’t I get incredibly jealous seeing my partner have sex with another person

You very well might at first.  Jealousy is anger and insecurity caused by fear of losing something... In this case, your partner. That’s why it’s important to take things slow, communicate and listen to your partner. You and your partner need to remember that no matter what happens, you love each other and you are going home together.  Besides, when you swing with other couples, it’s good to remember that they are there for the same reason as you are, fun.  Lifestyle couples are committed to each other and have no interest in stealing your mate or breaking up your relationship.


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